Getting to know your new Clitoral Vibrator

People skip this step all the time but shouldn’t! Chances are, your clitoral vibrator will come with a little booklet, including instructions for use and other important safety and maintenance information. In the very least, reading the instructions will give you a rundown of the controls. Believe me, you want to know before you play with it how to turn your vibrator on and off, as well as how to change between the various vibration patterns, if that’s something your toy has. Try turning it on and rubbing it up and down your legs or arms, just to get a feel of the surface on your skin, change the settings as you rub it up and down without looking at the controls, you don't want to stop midway just to take it out and look at the controls, as that can really put you off your game. Once you have a hang of the controls, use the vibrator along more sensitive areas of your body, such as your nipples, inner thighs and the anus or perineum. Apply a little water-based lubricant to heighten the sensations. You might think of lube as only necessary for penetration, but even if you’re only using a vibe on your clitoris, lube can be a good idea. The skin of your clit is very sensitive and dry stimulation—like rumbly, lubeless vibrations—might irritate it.

How to Use Your Clitoral Vibrator

Think about how you masturbate without a toy although the point of a sex toy might be to experience something completely different than what you can do on your own, and that’s cool too. Most clitoral vibrators are small, and the benefit of this is that they can be incorporated into a variety of positions. This can help you access different parts of the clitoris and experience different intensities of orgasm.

Try lying on your front and slipping the vibrator down between you and the duvet for a new way to experience stimulation. Or use a position enhancer to create angles of elevation for noticeably magnified sensations. Some women like to use a barrier between the toy and their clitoris such as underwear or a towel, especially if they feel the vibrations too intense.  A lot of vibrators have multiple settings, allowing you to turn up and down the intensity of vibrations. And while it might be tempting to crank your toy all the way up, you’ll probably have a more enjoyable experience if you bump up the intensity gradually.

How to get the Best out of Your Clitoral Vibrator with Your Partner

A Clitoral Vibrator doesn't have to be a solo masturbation sex toy, it can also be incorpoarted into your sex life with a male partner. The Clitoral Vibrator can be used to caress his perineum or around his balls, gently moving along his shaft. Vibrators can also be used whilst performing oral sex on your partner, just hold the vibrator against your cheek as you go down on him.

To enhance yours and your female partners sexual experiences, you can gently run the Clitoral Vibrator up the inside of her thigh, teasingly towards her vagina, until it reaches her clitoris whilst you explore her soft vagina with your fingers.

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